Don’t call it courage.


I’ve written and erased this blog multiple times. Bottom line, third transfer didn’t work, and no, it doesn’t get¬†easier.

We’re going to keep going. One more embryo to transfer, then probably on to adoption. And we’re going to keep going until we have our baby, no matter how (s)he comes to us.

You can call it determination. Persistence. Maybe even nerve.

But please don’t call it courage.

Because this is what a mother does. Fights for her children, even when she hasn’t met them yet.